Jeremy de Tolly

music ● spirituality ● voice ● awakening ● creativity ● healing

E014 - The rather unpleasant consequences of keeping your mouth shut

Hey, how are you? So, this blog is titled “The consequences of keeping your mouth shut”. And this is going to be an exploration into the world of “vocal shut down” - especially in relationships, and what happens when we stop saying how we feel. I will say from the outset, this is a pretty personal topic for me. I've spent a lot of time bypassing hard and negative emotions and suppressing anger. And so I'm really fascinated by the process of learning to speak how you feel and get it all out, and I've really observed in my own body and in my clients the consequences of keeping your mouth shut, when we've got all kinds of feelings happening down in our belly and in our chest. 

Before we go any further - watch the Youtube channel or read the blog below. Enjoy!

So how does it work? I'm going to explore some of the patterns and symptoms that I've observed in myself and in my clients around vocal shutdown. 

One of the things that's kind of...

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E013 - How vocal liberation can support you to create deeper authenticity and healthier boundaries

Well, hey there. Great to see you. This week's episode explores how vocal liberation can support you to create deeper authenticity and healthier boundaries. 

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Thank you for joining me here in my studio. So, today I'm going to be talking about authenticity and boundaries, oh what a subject! Oh, I have so much to learn, but there's so much to be said about it, and I'm going to share what I have today. I’m just gonna say from the outset that authenticity and boundaries,  are  complex subjects. And our culture has a whole lot of conditioning to offer on being agreeable and saying that we are fine no matter how we're feeling. And domesticating the powerful NO right out of us until we say YES all the time even when we don’t mean it. 

And so being authentic is a work in progress for all of us, and developing boundaries is not easy. And I'm going to say that I am no master of the subject, but I'm going to share...

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E012 - Boost Your Voice Online - Unblock Your Throat Chakra

radiant voices Apr 17, 2020

Hello dear friend. 

It’s great to be sharing with you again and in this episode we're going to investigate how a blocked Throat Chakra affects you in the online world, or how it could prevent you from having an effective and fun online presence. 

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We're going to be investigating exactly what happens when you go online, let’s say… intending to communicate with people or advertise your business or just to express yourself and have fun but your throat chakra might block you from being your most empowered self. Simply put, it might shut you down. 

So, yeah, thank you very much for watching this. Hopefully you'll get a lot from it. Before we go any further, if you're into this kind of content please subscribe to the channel. You know I keep saying this in my videos and some of you lovelies keep ignoring me. Now I know you're watching this right now – I'm...

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E011 - How to untame your heart and free your throat chakra

Uncategorized Apr 10, 2020

Hello Love

In this episode, we are going to investigate how your throat chakra got domesticated, and what you can do to get your howl back. Watch the video or read the transcript below:


So once upon a time, as a little person you howled with the wolves. (wolf howls) You cried when you wanted to cry, You pooped when you needed to poop, and you laughed like a maniac. And one of the special things that you probably did at that time, is that in adult terms, you made a fool of yourself every day, and you were funny as hell. 

Before we go any further, I'd love you to subscribe to this channel if you're into this kind of content and interested in self-expression, liberating your singing or speaking voice, music, consciousness and awakening. Please click that red subscribe button below and even hit the bell to be notified about future episodes. 

Your voice was free for a time. And then as we know, life happened. So parents begin to teach us when to speak and not to speak....

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E010 - How to unblock your throat chakra

radiant voices Apr 04, 2020

Hello, friend 

In today's episode we're going to be investigating the throat chakra, and more specifically, about how it is that one can go from having an open, clear beautiful voice as a young person, as a little child or baby, into emerging as an adult with blocks and the inability to sing and or speak with freedom.  Watch the video, or read about it in the blog, posted below: 

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Before we go any further, I'd love you to subscribe to this channel if you're into this kind of content and interested in self-expression, liberating your singing or speaking voice, music, consciousness and awakening. Please click that red subscribe button in the Youtube vid and even hit the bell to be notified about future episodes. 

Right. Let's go back to that little person. So how does a freely expressing child, baby or young person, who cries when they need to, and...

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E009 - How to choose a healer, therapist or teacher

Uncategorized Mar 28, 2020

Hello there

So in today's episode we are going to be looking at how to choose a healer therapist or teacher. Watch the video, or read about it in the blog, posted below:

I’m going to be talking specifically how to heal and thrive in the most direct way while avoiding the potential cul-de-sacs, pitfalls and even traumatic experiences that can set a person back years or even decades if they do work with, dare I say it, the wrong person or get into the wrong hands. In this particular episode we're going to look at questions for teachers or a therapist that one can ask and ethical guidelines and standards that are worth knowing. It's probably, or rather it is almost definitely, a very good idea to get streetwise to enjoy a smoother path of healing and definitely a smoother path than mine and many other people that I know - yeah it’s just that there are pitfalls and cul-de-sacs and I'm going to talk a little bit about how those have come to be and where you tend to find them...

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E008 - How to sing in tune reliably, for the rest of your life

Hello friends

Welcome to another episode. In this episode I'll be delving deep into one very simple thing and that is how to sing in tune for the rest of your life, reliably.

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So that's quite a big promise but I feel confident that in time we'll at least be able to lay out the groundwork you'd need to do to be able to do this for the rest of your life and I'm just going to begin by saying that, in my experience no one is tone deaf but it's just a little bit like some people got thrown out of the birthday party at age six or eight or twelve and stopped singing and stopped believing they could sing. Sometimes they got told they couldn't or shouldn't sing and it's a question of creating a safe space for them to rediscover this beautiful facility and develop trust in it for the rest of their lives.

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E007 - Releasing voices and healing blocks

Hey Lovely Folk

So this is going to be another episode of unplanned, unscripted communication.

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As you can see I'm sitting on a tropical island, it’s been raining a little bit, kind of windy and here we are.

I wanted to share with you a little bit about what it's like doing the work releasing voices, making music on this island; I'm down in the southeast at a place called The Sanctuary Thailand. A beautiful retreat venue. So, people come here to heal and detox - and sometimes retox - but really what I come here to do is run a workshop, which I'll be doing tomorrow for three days with my wonderful colleague Fiona Soma but I'm also doing one-on-ones and leading meditations and leading music evenings and it's pretty awesome. There's a lot of barefoot walking down sandy paths with Indian minor birds chirruping in there in the trees and then there's just the work really, and just to share what it's like, I'd love to...

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E006 - How your voice can bring you confidence and joy

Uncategorized Feb 07, 2020

Hi loves,

This blog was shot in my bungalow in Thailand - I'm here for 2 weeks running workshops, private sessions and sharing music.

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Today we're going to be investigating some mindset shifts around our voices that are worth exploring .

And the first one goes like this:

"I can heal my social engagement system, I can feel safe in front of and around a lot of people."

So here's the thing, we have this amazing thing called our ventral vagal nervous system and it's said to be one of the most developed parts of our nervous system. One of the things that it regulates is our relationships with other people and our feelings of safety around other humans. It's an amazing set of nerves that descends out of the brain, visits our voice-box, has plenty of contact with our heart and then even more with our gut, tummy and abdomen.

So it's really important for regulating how we feel at any given moment but most specifically, for those of us who...

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E005 - No filter: an experiment with unconditioned voice

Uncategorized Jan 31, 2020

Hi loves,

This vlog was a total experiment. The backstory is that producing weekly video content takes a lot of time. And I knew I needed to change the way I was doing it. So this episode happened by accident. I asked myself what would happen if I just spoke from the heart with no script.

When I went to the camera I thought I was doing a quick test. I got there, breathed and suddenly knew I was going to just let it happen in real-time, with no fixed destination.

As you can see in the video, fear arose.

But deep inner quiet and spaciousness surrounded that fear. It also felt like a loving act to pitch up and be present and vulnerable.

The end of the story is that while my first video took me 6 days to complete, this one took an hour including editing. Hallelujah!

This blog is about empowered, free self-expression. It's about taking risks and building the courage to emerge into the world as your powerful, free and beautiful self. It's about being unsure, a little bit clueless and...

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